There are a TON of reasons why you should forgive FAST, but I want to bring to you my top 3! We are ALL faced with situations that create problems on a regular basis. Some issues are A LOT more serious than others. These problems can occur between friends, family, co-workers, neighbor’s, etc. The key I want to drive home is you should QUICKLY kiss and make up!
Why in the world would you want to forgive anyway? What is someone has created SO MUCH pain in your life? What is it REALLY worth to forgive this person? I can EASILY forget this person and move on with my life, so why even forgive them?
I am in NO form saying ANYTHING about becoming best friends with someone who has demolished your trust or abused you in ANY form. What I am referring to you here is a much more PERSONAL thing to do, rather than building a relationship with someone you dislike. This is meant to help and NOT create more distress. If you find the information useful, apply it. I am in no means trying to offend anyone or downplay the seriousness of any particular situation; this is GENERAL information in an attempt to HELP you become the best version of yourself. The benefits OUTWEIGH the burden.
Here are the TOP 3 reasons to forgive FAST:
- Life is too short
Reason one, life is too short. Let’s be honest, we have NO IDEA when our last day will be and expressing anger/frustration towards someone or something for a LONG period of time is holding you back from experiencing life to the fullest. We are closing off avenues that would potentially generate lively experiences when we hold grudges. Something mentally is interrupting the regular sequence of thinking when you have pent up anger. You tend to think more negatively and ultimately are cutting off experiences that could potentially enrich your life. Life is REALLY short and it is our duty to live to our FULL potential!
“To be wronged is nothing, unless you continue to remember it.” – Confucius
Reason two, regret! The worse thing you can do is add to the emotional frustration. You already feel some type of way about the situation, why add to the negativity. What if (God forbid) something were to happen and you did not get a chance to forgive that person or work it out? You would probably feel terrible and would have to live with that for the rest of your life. Like I said in reason one, life is too short!
“Not forgiving is like drinking rat poison and then waiting for the rat to die.” – Anne Lamott
Reason three, self-limiting. You can paralyze the thought process with high levels of grudge. It is a painful emotion that literally destroys the human soul. Holding grudges literally holds you back from reaching the BEST version of yourself; it limits the person you can become. It’s like stumping your spiritual growth. You place a ceiling on who you can become by NOT forgiving. Always strive to be the BIGGER person!
“A life lived without forgiveness is a prison.” -William Arthur Ward
There is NO time specifics to forgiving and you obviously want to do it when you are ready. I am not saying to rush the process, but you definitely want to forgive as fast as YOU possibly can and move on. I want to pause here and reiterate that this is on an individual basis and should be taken as GENERAL advice; use it as a tool. I would advise seeking council before making any SERIOUS life decisions.
Again, I hope this helps!!!
To Your MASSIVE Success,
“Motivating YOU to Become The BEST Version of Yourself”
See what I do if money wasn’t an option. This has to be one of my favorite questions. It leads me up to this point in my life and the conclusion that I am on my way to quite literally LIVING MY DREAMS!
This is exciting for me as I am currently in a HOT Pursuit of accomplishing my childhood dreams THIS MONTH!!! I thank God for this opportunity and pray He continues to guide me along the way!!!
Check out the video below and let me know what YOU would do if MONEY was NOT an option!!!
To Your Massive Success,
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I’m not sure about you, but I think it is absolutely amazing to feel the love and support from friends/family while on your path to attaining your dreams. I don’t think there is a better feeling than knowing there are people backing you up; especially if you are passionate about what it is you are doing.
This not only gives you power, but the ENERGY to carry on! Many entrepreneurs get “burnt out” from burning the candle on both ends. How do they progressivley move forward into their abundance if they feel like they are all beat up? How do they carry on, when everything seems to be going the wrong way? What pushes them to continue on thier path to SUCCESS when results are not showing?
Of course having the FAITH & BELIEF the God will carry them through, but also
having the backing of friends/family is EXTREMELY important. I know for me, as a guy, I have this constant urgency to provide. That being said, I place a ton of pressure on myself to produce results. Naturally, stress is tied up in all that pressure and if I am not focused/grounded, I can EASILY burn myself out.
I have noticed that attaining REAL RESULTS in life are NOT solely gained by action alone.
There is a spiritual aspect that one MUST have.
You have to believe things will work out.
There has to be some form of hope.
That being said, the FEELING I’ve got is GRATITUDE! I have a feeling of gratitude because of all the love & supoort I have been receiving through this blog/business venture. Yes, I work really hard to get the results I am getting, but without this support, I would probably burn out eventually.
So my feeling of gratitude is directly related to YOU! You have been a part of this magnificent journey and I hope I can do the same for you!
One LAST Thing: I have noticed when I am in the midst of feeling GRATEFUL, the universe responds by sending more BLESSINGS! hint hint!
“Gratitude is an opener of locked-up blessings.” ~Marianne Williamson
Let me know what you think about this FEELING in the comment section!
To YOUR Massive Success,
Work with me Directly!