There are a TON of reasons why you should forgive FAST, but I want to bring to you my top 3! We are ALL faced with situations that create problems on a regular basis. Some issues are A LOT more serious than others. These problems can occur between friends, family, co-workers, neighbor’s, etc. The key I want to drive home is you should QUICKLY kiss and make up!
Why in the world would you want to forgive anyway? What is someone has created SO MUCH pain in your life? What is it REALLY worth to forgive this person? I can EASILY forget this person and move on with my life, so why even forgive them?
I am in NO form saying ANYTHING about becoming best friends with someone who has demolished your trust or abused you in ANY form. What I am referring to you here is a much more PERSONAL thing to do, rather than building a relationship with someone you dislike. This is meant to help and NOT create more distress. If you find the information useful, apply it. I am in no means trying to offend anyone or downplay the seriousness of any particular situation; this is GENERAL information in an attempt to HELP you become the best version of yourself. The benefits OUTWEIGH the burden.
Here are the TOP 3 reasons to forgive FAST:
- Life is too short
Reason one, life is too short. Let’s be honest, we have NO IDEA when our last day will be and expressing anger/frustration towards someone or something for a LONG period of time is holding you back from experiencing life to the fullest. We are closing off avenues that would potentially generate lively experiences when we hold grudges. Something mentally is interrupting the regular sequence of thinking when you have pent up anger. You tend to think more negatively and ultimately are cutting off experiences that could potentially enrich your life. Life is REALLY short and it is our duty to live to our FULL potential!
“To be wronged is nothing, unless you continue to remember it.” – Confucius
Reason two, regret! The worse thing you can do is add to the emotional frustration. You already feel some type of way about the situation, why add to the negativity. What if (God forbid) something were to happen and you did not get a chance to forgive that person or work it out? You would probably feel terrible and would have to live with that for the rest of your life. Like I said in reason one, life is too short!
“Not forgiving is like drinking rat poison and then waiting for the rat to die.” – Anne Lamott
Reason three, self-limiting. You can paralyze the thought process with high levels of grudge. It is a painful emotion that literally destroys the human soul. Holding grudges literally holds you back from reaching the BEST version of yourself; it limits the person you can become. It’s like stumping your spiritual growth. You place a ceiling on who you can become by NOT forgiving. Always strive to be the BIGGER person!
“A life lived without forgiveness is a prison.” -William Arthur Ward
There is NO time specifics to forgiving and you obviously want to do it when you are ready. I am not saying to rush the process, but you definitely want to forgive as fast as YOU possibly can and move on. I want to pause here and reiterate that this is on an individual basis and should be taken as GENERAL advice; use it as a tool. I would advise seeking council before making any SERIOUS life decisions.
Again, I hope this helps!!!
To Your MASSIVE Success,
“Motivating YOU to Become The BEST Version of Yourself”
There are a few things that are extremely important to achieving the goals you desire in life. Without these components, attaining success will NOT be possible. But there is ONE component I want to emphasize today because it is VERY IMPORTANT…in fact, without it, all activities are pointless.
Going through the motions everyday can be quite boring at times, but super important. It is the persistence and consistency that will yield SOLID results. But there is something else that MOST goal setting instructors NEVER talk about. Which is ashamed because their teachings are misleading. Let’s avoid that right away and let me give you the single most important aspect of goal setting.
Going through life with goals WILL get you much further than going through without any goals. But I hear people say ALL the time that they DO INDEED have goals, but most never seem to manifest. This leads to frustration and ultimately FAILURE (by choice of quitting).
Let’s get out of the mindset of what average people do. They simply set a goal, make an intention, write it down, believe in it and take action. Don’t get me wrong, this will yield results, but they may NOT be the exact ones you want. Also, there may be a difference in time spans of when this all will ACTUALLY manifest. So let’s avoid all this and manifest the results we want (or better) and even FASTER than before!
The secret is…associating an important emotional tie with the goal. Something that is SO MEANINGFUL to you, you literally will NOT allow the dream to disappear until it comes into fruition. I found that if I gave my goal EXTREME meaning and coupled it with MASSIVE emotional reasons (it has to happen), my results come POURING in at SPEEDS I never knew possible.
This is certainly something WE ALL should be doing to get “lucky”. With the attachment of this “emotional reason”, your DRIVE and DETERMINATION walk into a level unheard of. People will start helping you achieve your goal and ultimately BELIEVE in you! I promise this ONE little change to goal setting will DRASTICALLY change your results! It has been working for me REALLY well this year and I just know it will work out for you too.
Add an “Emotional Reason” to your goals and WATCH the MAGIC unfold!!!
To Your Massive Success,
PS. Keep on the look out for “teasers” of The Motivation Files coming around soon! The project WILL be released this Fall and you will be one of the FIRST to be informed, so STAY TUNED! This is going to be exciting!!!