Sometimes we have to be tough with ourselves and the people we love. I have people send me questions on a daily basis and most people are seeking out advice for a better life. One of the most common threads that I find, are that these people seem to already know the answer. I know that may sound kind of weird at first, but it’s true.
I believe we have within us everything we need to really become the BEST versions of ourselves. I do not want this to get twisted, so let me be clear about seeking council. You should always seek guidance and mentorship when making the “big” decisions, even if you know what is right in your heart. It helps to clarify your thoughts and give them even more support. This way you may make decisions with the utmost certainty.
Now, I really am not quite sure the EXACT reason these people ask me questions they know the answers to, but it just may be to verify their thoughts. Just like anything else, this too can get a little out of control. I hear some of there responses after I give them feedback that validate they know the answers already. Some folks continually need validation for their thoughts, which made me draw a very interesting conclusion.
They need to GET OUT of their own way. These people are LITERALLY complicating life into ways that are obnoxiously unnecessary. This can be one of our BIGGEST problems to advancing. All those crazy convoluted thoughts interfering the process will create havoc if not controlled.
Life tosses us enough obstacles, we should try and be less disruptive to reality. I am not trying to be insensitive here, I am bring you the RAW truth. Sometimes the only thing holding YOU back is YOU! We drag our feet as if we are scared to achieve our goals. We have an amplitude of excuses stored up for every solution and a weak belief that things will end up on a positive note.
I am not 100% why we do this, but know it cannot go on if we wish to become the BEST versions of ourselves. WE need to seriously get out of our own way and let our story unfold more naturally. If you are facing this issue, I suggest you let it go and STOP with the excuses. The excuses are ONLY hurting YOU!
I hope this helps guide you in a more precise direction towards your goals. Take the time to analyze your life and check to see of YOU are in YOUR own way. And if you are…GET OUT!!!
To Your Massive Success,
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As you may have read on my post on http://WisdomMiners.com, I have been studying the Dennis Waitley series, “The Psychology of Winning”. As mentioned, Waitley believes there are 10 qualities “winners” possess that makes them the successful folks they are. I believe this material is priceless, so I wanted to get this information out to you as soon as possible.
One of the things ALL winners possess is a “positive self-motivation” quality. Do you focus on what you want? If you know exactly what it is you want in life (goal), something that excites you, you will have enough “self-motivation” to attain it. It has to be something that creates a sense of urgency inside of you! It must stimulate enthusiasm and ignite passion! This goal tagged along with the belief you can attain it, will yield the results you desire.
Here is an excerpt from “The Psychology of Winning” program on having “Positive Self-Motivation”:
“The positive self-motivation of total winners has two sources: (1) a self-expectant personal and world view and (2) an awareness that, through fear and desire are among the greatest motivators, fear is destructive-but desire leads to achievement, success and happiness. They focus on the rewards of success and actively tune-out fears of failure…Winners focus on goals, desires, and solutions, always moving in the direction of their currently dominant thoughts. They dwell on desired results (magnificent obsessions), and look at where they want to go, instead of troubled places the may have been or may still hide…”
What is your motivation and how do you communicate it with yourself? Continue to seek out your goals and believe only YOU can attain them! They were placed in your heart to pull out the greatness that resides in you! Wake up those old desires and get excited about the life you WILL live once you start taking action in the direction of your dreams! GO out there and GET’ EM! I believe in you! You Do Possess Positive Self-Motivation !!!
I just LOVE this quote! We have to really being to believe in ourselves and our abilities.
“Learn to trust your own judgment, learn inner independence, learn to trust that time will sort good from bad – including your own bad.”
Everything will work out for the best, even when things seem to be going south. In the end, it ALL is for the GREATER GOOD! Believe in YOU, this is where it all begins!
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